Grown-Up Decisions You’ll Thank Yourself For Later
/There’s a myth around that becoming an adult automatically means you know what you’re doing, but as any adult will tell you, that’s not the case and the truth is that most of us are winging it! But that doesn’t mean you can’t still get a few things sorted that are really important, that will help you (and potentially your friends and family) later on. The good news is that as soon as you get this stuff done, you can essentially forget about it and go back to what you were doing (even if you’re not quite sure what that is). With that in mind, keep reading to learn about some grown-up decisions you’ll thank yourself for later.
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Financial Jobs Matter More Than You Think
You don’t have to be what you might think of as rich to make good financial decisions, and actually, those decisions probably matter even more when you’re trying to stretch your money in useful ways. We’re talking about things like putting money into savings as much as possible, checking what’s happening with your pension, and getting life insurance at last, for example. Those are the kinds of things that will help massively in the future and can give you a real sense of peace of mind.
We tend to think of money planning as something older people do, or as something that only becomes important when you’ve got a house and a family, but in reality, having a backup plan and some options can help you feel good no matter where you are in life.
Health Is More Than Just Fitness
We all have good intentions when it comes to our health, but if you’ve ever signed up for a gym and only gone a handful of times (despite still paying every month), you’ll know that sometimes those good intentions just don’t stick. Of course, that being said, the decisions that really make a difference aren’t always about exercise, they’re about getting regular check-ups, and asking for help when you need it.
The fact is that taking care of your health doesn’t need to be something that’s uncomfortable or even painful (if it is, it’s probably not the right thing for you to be doing), which is why it’s wise to find something that works for you because when you do that, you’ll be able to keep it up. In the end, it doesn’t really matter what you do when it comes to getting fit and healthy as long as it’s consistent. Plus, you’ll need to try to get into the habit of listening to your body because when it tells you there’s a problem, that should be a sign to do something about it.
Do The Hard And Uncomfortable Things
Although we said you don’t want to be doing uncomfortable things when it comes to fitness, there are other times when it’s crucial to step outside your comfort zone and do things you just don’t want to do. We’re not talking about things that can hurt you, but instead we’re talking about things that make you feel uncomfortable, but that are vital to get done.
One of the biggest things to fall into this category is making a will. After all, if you sit down to do that, you’ll obviously be reminded that you’re not going to live forever, and that can be upsetting (even though it’s something we all know deep down). And although it might not be the most comfortable thing you’ve ever had to deal with, knowing you’ve taken the time to write a will gives both you and your family reassurance that your wishes will be respected and things won’t be left in a mess should the worst happen. What’s really great is that it doesn’t take long to do, especially if you’ve got expert help, and when it’s done you can forget about it and just get on with living your life.
Don’t Forget Your Relationships
Life changes, people grow, and sometimes they also grow apart. And part of being an adult is making conscious decisions about who you let into your life, who you spend time with, and who’s there to support you when things get tough. In the end, although it’s not easy, sometimes the best thing to do is to walk away from a relationship that’s not working (whether it’s romantic or platonic, or perhaps even a working relationship) and where something doesn’t feel right.
None of this is simple, and there’s no rulebook, but if you take the time to be with people who matter and create boundaries for anyone who saps your energy, then you’ll feel so much better.
Disclosure: This is a collaborative post.